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On the dates, they flash money around, having never really had it before.One software engineer visiting from the Bay Area was in town for a training session at Amazon before he made the move.I am a journalist, so I am very good at asking questions to get people to talk about themselves. (I stress “weirdos”—there are few people of color in Seattle.) The weirdos were: young gay boys, old hippies of varying sexuality, straight artists and musicians, softball lesbians, punk-rock dykes who played house music, metal musicians, ravers, or people into the fetish scene.

@Iamuhura wrote: “I honestly am thankful every single day that I’m no longer single. But they think they’re 11s and spew that entitlement wherever they go.” Even men had something (nasty) to say: Wrote one guy to my request, that I “want to hear about your dating life how the men in the tech industry have changed it”: “I think you accidentally said ‘changed,’ but what you meant was ‘ruined forever with their awfulness.’” Why were they so awful?The gender disparity is bad enough in San Francisco that one company, The Dating Ring, has resorted to flying women into San Fran from other cities. You might think an abundance of men is a great thing, but as a wise woman once said, “The odds may be good, but the goods are odd.” “I’ve lived in Seattle for seven years, single most of them,” Annie Pardo, a 31-year-old freelance event and communications consultant in Seattle, wrote in an email.“The only thing that has changed is the increase in men I’d never want to go out on a date with.” She added, “Can’t believe they actually strap on those new employee book bags.” For Reifman, the number of men versus women presents a challenge for guys like him—he can’t seem to get a date or hold the attention of the women he’s courting because, presumably, he’s got so much competition. My brain is very abstract, though, the exact opposite of so many men in tech who have very concrete/literal brains. I constantly felt like I wasn’t seen or valued by them, even though I experienced a lot of them as having a very limited view of the world.” Carla Swiryn, a matchmatcher for Three Day Rule, a start-up that offers curated online dating services in cities like San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York, and Chicago, said that her female clients are often hit with a double whammy: “I often hear women say they either date A-holes or nerds—or if they’re really lucky, both in one,” she said.It felt more like a job interview, but not the way a date is supposed to be a job interview.There was no grilling about where you were from and what your family was like and what you were looking for.

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